"Six Degrees Of Separation:" The Desire For Fame and Riches

"Isn't that what everyone wants? A new world?"
Ouisa Kittridge (Stockard Channing) in the movie Six Degrees of Separation

I was stunned when I first saw the movie "Six Degrees of Separation" in 1993 in a theater in Evanston, Illinois. I was visiting my sister who had a party to go to. I went to the movies. I remember walking to my car afterwards in a daze. At the time, I didn't understand why. Now I know.

The lives of the rich and famous seem so wonderful.  F. Scott Fitzgerald, the author of The Great Gatsby said, "The rich are different from you and me" to which Ernest Hemingway purportedly responded, "Yes. They have more money,"  suggesting that there's nothing special about them.

Yet I want to be them. I want that "new world" of glamor and excitement and privilege that they seem to possess.  I imagine it would be a life of few problems. I know the rich and famous have problems. But they live their problems in Paris and great restaurants, wearing designer clothes and going to fabulous parties. I imagine it would be great.

This is the story told by Six Degrees of Separation. It is the story of Paul (Will Smith) who wants what I want. Things do not end well for Paul yet, to the end, he wants what Flan (Donald Sutherland) and Ouisa (Stockard Channing) Kittridge have even though Ouisa expresses surprise that anyone would want their lives. Perhaps she needs to trade my house for hers for a few weeks.

Six Degrees Of Separation begins one evening with Flan and Ouisa  entertaining a South African millionaire, Geoffrey (Ian McKellen). Flan is an art dealer without a gallery. He matches wealthy individuals who have art to sell but don't want to sell on the open market with buyers who want to keep their purchases secret. Geoffrey is a potential customer that the Kitteridges are trying to cultivate.

Their New York City apartment overlooks Central Park. I would buy that apartment if I had the several million dollars it would cost. Expensive art adorns the walls. Expensive furniture adorns the apartment. Expensive clothing adorns the Kittridges.

The doorbell rings and the doorman admits Paul into this life of elegance and privilege. Paul, dressed in shirt and tie and looking every bit like an Ivy League preppy, tells a story of being stabbed and robbed of all his money in Central Park. He even has the knife wounds to prove it. Having no where to spend the night and no money for a hotel room until his father arrives in the morning, Paul has sought out the Kitteridges, remembering that their children, who Paul says he knew at Harvard, had told him where they live. When they ask Paul who his father is, Paul reluctantly reveals that his father is the famous actor Sidney Poitier.

The Kitteridges are charmed by Paul and his connection to his illustrious father. Paul is erudite and prepares a great dinner for the Kitteridges and Geoffrey who is equally charmed and agrees to spend millions on a painting Flan has been trying to sell to him. The Kitteridges offer Paul a bed for the night, knowing that Paul's charm has contributed to Geoffrey agreeing to buy the painting.

We soon learn that Paul is not the son of Sidney Poitier. He is a gay hustler who was picked up one rainy night in Boston by Trent Conway, a gay friend of the Kittridge children. Paul trades sex with Trent for information about the Kittridges and other wealthy families who Trent knows. Using that information, Paul concocts the story of being Sidney Poitier's son and insinuates himself into the lives of the wealthy.  So badly does he want that life that he has even stabbed himself to support his story of being mugged in Central Park.

I completely identified with Paul's  desire to create a new life for himself. While this is, certainly, my personal desire, it may be thought of as an American desire. We are the children and grandchildren and great grandchildren of people who came here from other countries to reinvent themselves. To find a "new world." Our culture is based on reinvention. In fact, America use to be known as the "new world" juxtaposed against the "old world" of Europe.

Interestingly, John Guare who wrote the screenplay as well as the play on which the movie is based, wrote the story of Six Degrees Of Separation after reading in the newspaper about a con man who insinuated himself into the lives of wealthy New Yorkers by claiming to be the son of Sidney Poitier. Art imitating life.

I guess I'm not the only one who wants that life.